Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Update and Grandma-hood

Jonah Patrick Blass
OK, OK, I know I haven't posted anything for almost two months.  I could be like one of those annoying retired people who talk about how busy they are; but I won't do that.  I'll just acknowledge that I'm lazy and I'm not a good/comfortable writer (I'm much more of a numbers person).  So I finally forced myself to sit down and get caught up before we go out shrimping tomorrow and head to Louisiana on Friday (see also posts from St. Augustine through Mississippi Gulf Coast).  Also, here's a Jonah update to entertain you!

Did I mention that I love being a grandma?                  And Pat loves being a grandpa?

He's pretty cute!
Gotta love the hair!   





















He loves his bath.
Bathtub fun.

He spent quality time with his aunt.
"Auntie Em, do you really know what you're doing?"

"Well, maybe you do!"

And studied Fantasy Baseball with his grandpa.
Studying their draft picks.

Grandpa lets Jonah manage the team.



Mississippi Gulf Coast


One of Biloxi's numerous beaches

Absolutely beautiful.  This area was almost completely destroyed by Hurricane Katrina in 2005.  Most of the devastation in New Orleans was caused by the dikes breaking.  Here, the devastation was from the winds and water surge of Katarina.
Still devastated.
Still rebuilding.
Almost 10 years later, they are still trying to recover and rebuild; but what a spectacular coast they have here.  Miles and miles of pure white sand beaches and the, for the most part, calm beautiful Caribbean Ocean.  We have lucked out and spent almost a month at an RV park that is right across the road from the beach.  Our RV spot is ideal and even has a little sliver of an ocean view from the kitchen window and a nice view from the outside area.  It’s a wonderful place to spend a month.  What more could you ask for:  all the amenities of a decent sized city, casinos with gambling/shows/food, spectacular beaches, great bars and restaurants, and yummy seafood! 

Many of the buildings that survived Katrina have signs marking the high water spot in their establishments.  It’s humbling to see how far inland the water surge went and how incredibly high it was. 
Camille and Katrina

Katrina high water mark
There are still numerous empty lots/blocks that you can see that used to have some type of business and/or houses that are just gone.  All that’s left is the driveways and, in some cases, the foundations.  The beach road here used to be lined with gorgeous historic mansions many of which are totally gone.  

In their place are historical marker signs that give the name of the house/plantation, a description of the building, and a brief history.  All of the signs end with, “Destroyed by Hurricane Katrina in 2005”.  Really gives us a dramatic perspective on the power of these hurricanes.

One really impressive thing they’ve done is to create a sort of artistic memorial in the median of the beach road.  Beach Boulevard is a four lane road that runs right along the beach.  Most of it has a nice median strip.  There are some really nice, large trees (oak?) in many areas of the median.  But some areas are almost totally bare where the trees snapped off due to the winds of Katrina.  Instead of just getting rid of the remaining tree stumps (which in some cases were quite tall), they commissioned a couple of artists to create animal wood carvings out of the stumps.  These are not those big clunky chainsaw wood carvings that you sometimes see.  They are very fine and delicate and have been preserved like a finely carved wooden bowl.  There are owls, eagles, dolphins, seahorses, all kinds of things.  It is so impressive and such a great idea.
Beach Boulevard tree carving.
While we were in Biloxi, we took a long planned trip to Phoenix to spend some time with our family.  Our son-in-law, Drew, is the tournament director of the annual LPGA tournament in Scottsdale and Sara and Jonah were going to be there for the week of the actual tournament (Drew had been there for over a month).
Jonah really missed his Dad!
Of course, Emily lives there and we got the chance to meet her new boyfriend (who seems like a very nice guy).  And to top it all off, there were baseball spring training games for Pat!

Jonah's 1st spring training game.
Lots of stuff to pack into a few short days.  We had great weather and got to see all of Jonah’s new accomplishments since we last saw him in mid-December (rolling over, sitting up, army crawling, eating “real” food, etc.).  He’s just as perfect as ever!  A few days before we left Biloxi for Phoenix, we got word that Pat’s mom, Beth, who was in an elder-care facility was failing rapidly.  So we scrambled around and got Pat on a flight from Phoenix to Portland while I returned to Biloxi, Big Bertha, and “the 5th”.  For those of you who don’t know, I’m afraid of flying!  I know, I know…..it’s safer than traveling by car, I’ve flown all over the U.S., to Mexico three times, Europe twice………but I really don’t believe those big things should be able to take off, stay in the air, and land!  So here I am (scared), flying solo (without Pat), and here’s my itinerary from Phoenix to Biloxi, MS:  Leave Phoenix at 6:00 a.m. (meant getting up in Northeast Phoenix at 3:45 a.m.), fly to Seattle (yes, I flew to the NW corner of the US from Phoenix to get to the gulf coast of Mississippi), change planes (and terminals) to catch a flight to Houston, spent 5 hours in the Houston airport, catch a flight to Gulfport/Biloxi, arrive at “the 5th” at 10:30 p.m.  Obviously, I survived; but I deserve a chance to whine once in a while!  Pat spent five days in Oregon and got to see his Mom and say goodbye before she passed away late Friday afternoon while he was flying back to Biloxi.

We had a couple of weeks to sit back, veg out, and enjoy Biloxi and the Beach.  We discovered a great beach bar.
Shaggy's on the beach.




 With a great beach drink.

 And great appetizers.
Tuna bites and seaweed salad-wonderful.
Of course, Pat discovered great seafood.
Oysters (ugh) three ways!
 And, we relaxed and enjoyed the beach.
Last afternoon on Biloxi beach.


Florida to Mississippi





Dining option in Monticello, Mississippi

We left St. Augustine and headed for the Mississippi gulf coast taking the “long” way!  We headed north through the heart of central Georgia to Pine Mountain, Georgia.  This is a very small town on the Georgia border with Alabama.  We wanted to see the amazing azaleas in the Callaway Gardens located here.  Unfortunately, due to the hard winter, the azaleas were late and had not even begun to bloom.  So, we spent one day driving around and through the west central Georgia “mountains” including going to Warm Springs where FDR died.  Another day, we drove through lake country in eastern Alabama to a county where I have ancestors and did some genealogy.  All in all, we saw some surprisingly pretty country, in fact, we would like to return (hopefully when the Azaleas are actually blooming!). 

Finally found blooming Azaleas in Southern Alabama
From there, we headed west across the heart of Alabama, through Montgomery, and drove along the Freedom Trail through Selma (the heart of Alabama’s civil rights movement) and on across central Mississippi to Monticello, Mississippi.  OK, this is a REALLY little town, in the middle, of REALLY nowhere!  Those of you who know us well, will know that we were there for only one reason….Genealogy.
Genealogy in Mississippi
My ancestry is really distinctly split.  On my Mom’s side, all the ancestors were from the north (South Dakota, Wisconsin, Iowa, Ohio, Pennsylvania-you get the idea).  To make things a little confusing, my Mom has an ancestor named Jones (as well as a Smith-ugh!).  My Dad was born in southeast Texas and his parents were born and raised in Louisiana.  All his ancestors were from Mississippi, Georgia, South Carolina, etc.  So, we are in this little town, which happens to be the county seat of Lawrence County, Mississippi to reach my genealogical brick wall of the southern JONES line.  My great grandfather was born there in 1864.  If you remember your history, you will recall that this was in the middle of the civil war (and in the heart of Mississippi).  So, in February of 1864, James and Mary (Brinson) JONES, named my great grandfather….Abraham Lincoln Jones!!!!  Really, what were they thinking?  Who would do that to a kid?  I would like to think that they were Northern sympathizers; however, this place is in the heart of rural central Mississippi and both James and Mary were born and raised in Mississippi.  It would be a stretch to think they were northern sympathizers.  Maybe one of them could see the future and knew the North would win and wanted to get in good with the victors?  Not likely.  And how did they introduce their new baby to family and friends?  I know, as an adult living in Louisiana, he often went by A. L. (obviously, he was nobody’s fool!).  Anyway, this is the first (and last) mention/record of James Jones that exists.  For some reason, Jones was a very popular name in Mississippi (and maybe other southern states) after the civil war.  Many former slaves took it for their last name.  That coupled with the fact that James is a very common name makes researching him virtually impossible.  Anyway, we spent several days there in a pretty city-owned RV park that was filled with big trees and mostly deserted before we headed south to Biloxi and the gulf coast.

St. Augustine, Florida



Sea Turtle, Crescent Beach, St. Augustine

We spent almost a month in St. Augustine, Florida (except for the short cruise we took to the Bahamas).  We really liked the area, the town itself, the bridges, the water, and the beaches; in general, a great place to spend time in the winter!   

"The 5th" at St. Augustine




Pat takes every opportunity to eat seafood!
 In addition to the cruise, we also took a trip north to Savannah, Georgia and Charleston, South Carolina.  We enjoyed both places.  They are filled with history and beautiful places to see and visit as well as great places to eat.   

Beautiful tree in historic Charleston
The main purpose of the trip was to attend a concert by The Mavericks, a group that we have loved for many years.  This was the first concert on their reunion tour and we both agree it was one of the very best concerts we’ve ever been to.  The musicians were obviously really into it and enjoyed themselves.  In fact, they kept playing for about an hour longer than scheduled.  We had a blast!

While we were on the northeast coast of Florida, we took the opportunity to connect with our son-in-law’s parents.  Drew’s parents live about 50 miles south of St. Augustine in Ormand Beach, Florida.  Between their schedule and ours, we felt lucky to manage to get together for dinner in Ormand Beach the week before we left.  It was very nice to see them again and chat about “the kids”.


The Cruise

Heading out from Port Canaveral
Since we were there, Pat and I decided to take a cruise.  We went back and forth around where to go and how long of a cruise to take; and ultimately decided to go with a short (three day) cruise to two islands in the Bahamas.  We got a really good deal price-wise; however, we then got the opportunity to upgrade (for a cost, of course) and decided to treat ourselves.  Was it ever worth it!  We had a junior suite on the highest cabin deck of the ship with a great balcony.  In addition, we got priority boarding and disembarkation which was totally worth it.  Just show up, skip all the lines, and we were in our suite in about 15 minutes.  Same with leaving the ship.  If you go on a cruise, this alone is worth the upgrade!  We spent one day on Grand Bahama Island.  We took a historical tour of the island that also highlighted natural features such as sea caves and a nature hike.  The day ended with lunch, snorkeling, and relaxation on a private beach.  Weather was great, the water was perfect, and we had a wonderful time.  The next day was spent on Nassau, the capital and most populated island.  We took a day trip to a small private island for a day of beach time, snorkeling, swimming, and of course, eating and drinking.  A great, relaxing day.

Entrance to sea cave.


Pat can only wear tie-dye on the beach.
Does it get any more beautiful than thsi?